Wednesday, April 13, 2005
Would You Choose Friendship Or Money?
for me... i would choose FRIENDSHIP... but I was disappointed when i realise that one of my friends actually spoiled the friendship between us because of money... haix... we had trouble splitting the money for tiger balm... i suggested to split equally, another one of my team mates (Call her M) has the same idea... but the last one (lets call her E), though she agreed... i dun think she was very happy... She probably wanted to split by contribution and she did not tell us. we would have agreed to it. Den came along an outsider, the boyfriend of that team mate... He scolded us for wanting to split equally when we done no work.
What happen to all the sleepless night that I have due to tiger balm research and stuff. What about the other team mates hardwork... I know E always like to bao ka liao... but what the image that she was portraying was totally unexpected. getting sick always because she complied all the stuff in the middle of the nite instead of day time when she was free to go dating.. make everything sound like we push everything to her when we did our share. unfortunately, our share was the first part of the report... and again unfortunately, E's share was the last few parts of the report.
Then when we knew that we were in the finals, I was coincidentally in Hong Kong, and M's sis got admitted into hospital. so the presentation was done by E. when i came back from HK, i found out that she have not done it, I OFFERED to do it. But she rejected me flatly that she want to do and hand up to the advisor ASAP. Hello!! i can do it ASAP too!! den again, she did until she was sick AGAIN.
Now, we won third prize. we wanted to split equally as promised before. she, wanted to split by contribution. if only she knew that it was fine with us. But i have friends telling me that she deleted M and my contacts off her MSN list. Our advisor ended up hurt by E's bf comments.
I thought winning would end up as being happy, now, if i were to choose again, I would not want to take part in Tiger Balm Competition.
Morale: If u are doing team work, do not let one person do most of the work as u might not know what that person might do to you.
To M: i think we did a great job despite wat E's bf said. So dun sad okie! Love Ya!
Sabrina was loved by Wilfred at 2:03 AM